A Letter To You, Young Dad

Being a young dad can be overwhelming, and at times, it may feel like you are in over your head. But don’t let those feelings discourage you. Fatherhood is a remarkable journey, and although it may be challenging, it is also one of the most rewarding experiences you’ll ever have. As a young dad, you have the opportunity to shape your child’s future, instill positive values and morals, and provide them with the love and support they need to thrive.

Remember, you are not alone on this journey. Seek support from other dads, family members, or friends who have been through similar experiences. There is no shame in asking for help, and you may be surprised at how many people are willing to lend a helping human hand.

Take joy in the small moments with your child, whether it’s playing catch in the park or reading a bedtime story. These moments may seem insignificant, but they are the ones that your child will cherish and remember.

Take pride in being a pillar. They’ve been watching you and everything you do and the majority of what we learn is simply mimicking what we have seen and repeating it. Make sure you behave in a way that, if mimicked, would be behavior’s you are proud of.

As Jordan Peterson once said, “The purpose of life is finding the largest burden that you can bear and bearing it.” Being a father is a heavy burden, but it is also a privilege. Embrace the challenges that come with it, learn from them, and grow stronger. The love and joy that you’ll receive from your child will make it all worth it in the end. Choose to view the burden as a privilege and you’ll never be burdened again.